Can two people in the same unit date each other? Stateside

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Is this person of same or similar rank and not in your chain of command?

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I understand you are concerned about dating someone in your unit. Let me see if I can help. In the military, officers and members of enlisted ranks are prohibited from having certain personal interactions outside of their professional duties and orders. Fraternization between service members of different grades, between trainees and enlisted members, and between recruiters and recruits is also prohibited.  The act of fraternizing becomes a criminal offense under Article 134 when the conduct “has compromised the chain of command, resulted in the appearance of partiality, or otherwise undermined good order, discipline, authority, or morale.”  Since you are of similar rank and not in each other's chain of command, you are allowed to have this relationship without it being prohibited by the military.  I hope this helps.

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I quoted you the language from article 134.  You can date someone 2 ranks above or below.  You are only 1 rank in difference.  Here is a good article on all branches of the military and the rules:  https://www.ucmjlaw.com/courts-martial/military-crimes/fraternization/

That is getting dicey and you may speak with your chain of command to confirm if it is acceptable.  You might think of avoiding this relationship and it may depend on your commanding officer as to if this is acceptable or not.

You do not have to ask stating that it has happened.  If it has then it may be best to end the relationship.  You are probably ok if this person is not in your chain of command but it may be difficult to prove when this relationship started.  It would be safest to stop the relationship.  

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